Monday, December 22, 2008

Baby Pictures 12/25

Not that anyone is around to go anyways, but Baby Pictures has been cancelled this week due to the holiday.

I really enjoyed going to Baby Pictures when Hunter was younger but these days I just can't see him sitting through a 2 hour movie. For that reason (as of the first of the year) I won't be posting the Baby Picture movie of the week.

If you want to check out what's playing, go here: link then select "NJ", then select "Schedule" under the Edgewater Mulitplex listing. 


Friday, December 19, 2008

Date Night Update



Ahhhhhh...recharge. :) 
I am still laughing from our date-night tonight.
The show (mainly Eric) was funny but the laughs at dinner afterwards were even better. 
It's great having friends in the neighborhood who all understand the new parent lifestyle and can appreciate a night of freedom out on the town. 
Eric performed splendidly -- I wish I could say the same for the other comics although out of 11 there were 3 funny ones. 
Dinner at Rockinghorse Cafe was delish.
The weather was cold, wet, snowy, rainy, icy, and bleak but we didn't let that stop us!
Our nannies and sitters were scheduled and we were determined to make a night of it.

*Note that Rena & Eddie were there too but left before the dinner pics were taken...next time we hope more of you guys show up...Karaoke in January will be funnnnnnnnn!*

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Christmas Spirit



I miss Christmas.
By this time last year, the living room smelled of fresh pine, I'd been singing Christmas songs since October, and the lights were all aglow on the tree.
This year, we opted out of decorating since our plans included being away for the holidays and since Hunter pretty much eats anything 3 feet off the ground.
But I miss the lights, the decorations, the Santas, the little Christmas village with the ice-skaters and the train that circles the tree...
Okay so maybe we didn't have ALL of that.
It's just that I never celebrated Christmas as a child since I didn't grow up Christian and we celebrated Persian New Year in March (a non-religious, cultural celebration of Spring).
Now that I married into a Christmas-celebrating family I like doing it BIG.
Go big or go home, right? Isn't that the American Christmas tradition?
Whatever it is, I am ALL about it so I feel kinda cheated this year that Hunter's 
first Christmas is non-existent at his home. Hopefully Grandma won't disappoint in Florida. 
Remembering back to last year, I was HUGE (kinda like this year) with baby in belly and loving the frigid weather. Until, like, February. When I was OVER it already! 
SO in Christmas spirit, I'll post a pic of our tree last year. And my belly. Well it's mainly my belly with a little bit of tree... 
Happy Holidays! Happy Chanukah! Merry Christmas! Seasons Greetings! Feliz Navidad! Happy Kwanzaa! Happy New Year!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

I'm sure it's just the pregnancy talking...










...but this is the first year I am ready for a 2nd Thanksgiving less than a month later.
Here are some pics from my Family's home in Orlando last month.
I look at them anytime I get really hungry and then I eat a bowl of cereal. ha 

Cocoa is Contagious...


Just like a smile...
Roni made me hot cocoa with marshmallows and whipped cream last week and ever since I have Ghirardelli cocoa, ReddiWhip, and JetPuffs stocked in the house. 
I told Rebecca about my newest craving and she's been indulging as well -- but naturally in the lower-fat version since she's a Skinny Minnie these days. ;) 
So I wonder how many of you will read this post, see my iphone pic, and make one for yourself?

Picture Share


Here's a Before and After of Hunter...
Before referring to him being sicky last week.
After referring to his usual silly hammy self. :)
I'd also like to point out that he's the only kid I know who still managed to GAIN weight during the Bird Flu or whatever the heck he had that everyone's been suffering from. 

Date Night Reminder

Eric's Big Night at Gotham is this Friday, Mommas! 
If you want a fun date night, join us for a night of comedy in NYC and dinner to follow.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

1st Birthdays

We are planning Hunter's First Birthday party and when I say "we" I mean "me"... :)
I started 4 months ago and then decided it was WAY too early however I had already priced venues, found a bakery, selected decorations, etc. 
When the Clubhouse Drama happened in late October, I realized I would definitely have to pay to have his party somewhere else since there is no room in our tiny apartment and we didn't have any on-site options.
Next week I was planning on putting a deposit down for a room on River Road however in light of the new developments with Roseland, I may wait on it and rent the room in Building 28 instead since it's more convenient for my neighborhood guests. 
We've decided not to go overboard so we will have just an intimate gathering. 
This was decided after attending about five 1st Birthdays in the past three months.
Trust me, I know how easy it is (as a Mom) to want a spectacular first shin-dig for your tot...however that being said, it's been increasingly more evident to me that the kiddles are
 TOTALLY clueless to the occasion being in their honor and therefore they aren't always as cooperative with the "plans". 
Besides, aside from a few key pictures, there will be no memory of this party for our little Hunter and while I will make sure it's fun for our guests I don't believe I'm going to rent a Petting Zoo and a Moonwalk Bounce House quite yet. 
Here's a pic of Hunter at his friend Luka's First Birthday party today. This captures the overall theme of the party :) --->

Monday, December 8, 2008

Pregnancy Hormones

This is a pic I took while we were in Bermuda this year. I'm posting it because it's my "happy place". 
Some of you know Hunter got sick last week and Trav is working crazy hours again...so it's been a tough week for me since I am pregnant and tired to begin so being a single mom to a sick baby is doubly tolling on me...but this post isn't about the negative stuff...it's about the fact that even when I feel nothing is going the way I hoped (temporarily), I have blessings around me as constant reminders of how lucky I am. 
I am lucky to be a mom of a loving baby boy with another miracle baby growing inside of me.
 I am lucky to have a husband who works so hard for his wife and family.
 I am lucky he has a job at all right now in this economic climate.
 I am lucky to have friends who bring me groceries on days like today when I couldn't leave the house with a sick child. 
I am lucky to have the Mommy Group to empathize and vent, to make memories and have fun.
 There are many little things in life that make the current situation of helplessness feel like a passing moment. 
I appreciate that.

I saw this quote today and it made me smile inside because it's exactly how I feel:

"She said she usually cried at least once each day not because she was sad, but because the world was so beautiful & life was so short."

Yoga, Mommy & Me

I haven't updated the calendar (down below) in forever. Is anyone attending the classes in the neighborhood? Can someone please send me updated times for them if they've changed?
Thanks!!

Baby Pictures 12/11

For those of you brave enough to go out in the Brrrrrr weather:

Edgewater Multiplex Cinemas
Film: FOUR CHRISTMASES
Rating: PG-13
Price: $6.50
Date: 12/11/2008
Time: 10:00 am

Trav & I had a "Date Night" in Orlando 2 weeks ago and chose this film -- very cute! I recommend it if you want a fun, non-serious, romantic comedy. Reese Witherspoon and Vince Vaughn play the main characters whose Fijian flight is cancelled on Christmas Eve and they are forced to go to their parents' houses for 4 Christmases in one day. Hilarity ensues.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Fun Waste of Time

For little girls (ok, or me)...

Friday, December 5, 2008

Management Dictatorship

For those who have been asking: NOPE -- Management has yet to resolve the Clubhouse issue. 
When I originally sent them the email, Brenda Cioce of Roseland Property accidentally sent me an email that was directed to the rest of the staff stating that a letter should be sent to us in response. She then attempted to recall it when she realized I received it as well.
While I was out of state, Trav received a message from Dan Mogolesko asking to meet with us. I called the office and he was not there so I emailed him stating that I was not around and wouldn't be until December so I was requesting a written response to my written complaint in order for the issue to be resolved.
I received NO response from them. Of course.
SO then I emailed them again a week+ later to find out why no one had contacted me and Aysha Leak-Saunders of Roseland Property replied. Her response was that Dan had contacted me and they awaited my phone call. Her tone was accusational (real word? probably not) to say the least so I responded AGAIN and await their response.
Since we just returned home and aren't settled yet I haven't scheduled a meeting but will probably do so for next Saturday. By then the petition will have been completed and received by their office and Trav should hopefully be available from work. If any of you would like to also attend the meeting, please let me know. I think our strength is in numbers and I'd like to show them that it's not just one person who is complaining. Not that they care about their residents anyways.
In addition, I am in the process of sending my original complaint to the BBB of Trenton NJ and while doing so I noticed that they already have a complaint filed against them. Hopefully they will receive the BBB's letter soon as well.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Present Ideas

Did any of you see Oprah's Favorite Things last week? 
It was a disappointment to those expecting extravagant giveaways but there was something that stood out to me.
She asked viewers to write in about their less costly holiday gifts and one young couple said they give each other the "Twelve Days of Christmas". To those who celebrate, you know that's a traditional Christmas song. However for this couple the month of December had 12 activities they planned together. For example, one afternoon they'd go hiking, one evening they'd go bowling or bake cookies, etc. 
I thought it was so sweet and so much more meaningful than buying each other something. Especially in my marriage where I rarely see my husband...twelve days of Christmas sounds amazing!! I think the last time we were together or even saw each other for 12 days in one month was when we got married in Bermuda...sad but true.
Oprah's show focused on giving sentimental gifts from the heart versus being a Consumer-Crazed society and buying all the newest, latest, and greatest. At a time where we all should be tightening our belts to prepare (or react) to the economic climate, this show actually really appealed to me. I wonder if Trav could live without a velvet-lined cufflink box from Saks? I'm sure he could...and I know this is one Christmas my maternal-y eternal-y growing baby bump won't be asking for clothes! Hmmm...something to think about. 

Adding to the Blog

If there is anything newsworthy in the Mommy World and you want to share it, please feel free to email me and I will add it to the blog. :) This can be anything regarding the kiddies, events and activities, Pediatrician and babysitter/nanny info, etc...

We're Hooooooome! And Random Updates






WE'RE HOME:
Hi Moms!
Hunter, Trav, and I are finally home from FL!
Hunter was showered with smiles and love and attention from everyone down there so now that it's just him and I at home, he's not so impressed with just me. 
It's good to be back but it was hard to say goodbye to family and friends and the warm weather. 
Now we are busy working, unpacking, doing laundry, cleaning up the house, grocery shopping, catching up on DVR'd shows, and all sorts of other fun chores. ;)
RANDOM UPDATES:
I hope to see you all soon! We are going to Eric's Show (See the Gotham Comedy Club Post below) so hopefully we'll see some of you there. Dinner afterwards, as well.
In January we are planning a Karaoke Night so I'll keep you posted.
We will be leaving again in less than three weeks to go back to FL so things are a lil' hectic for us this month, otherwise I'd plan a December Mommy Event.
I had an Ultrasound yesterday and all is well with our 2nd pregnancy -- we find out the baby's gender in mid-January. I'll update you all then.
For those of you who are still buying Holiday Prezzies, www.babystyle.com has a sale thru Sunday -- 30% off if you enter promo code HOHO30 when checking out. I think we're getting Hunter's rocker from there. Still not sure...
As far as the Management Office goes, they have done NOTHING in response to our letter -- I still need some of your signatures so I plan to get on that next week. 
Music class (for those of us who attended) is over so we are looking into another class for next semester to try something new. We'll let you know where we end up.
While in Orlando, we took Hunter to the Science Center and he LOVED it so maybe we should plan a day trip to the Children's Museum in Paramus for the stay at homes...this was Justine's idea. I think it sounds awesome and would love to do it once the morning sickies go away.
Okay I am off to do more housework...woohoo!
Talk to you all soon,
Az

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!!


Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving...I hope you are able to enjoy this day with friends and family and reflect on all you are thankful for. :)
I'm thankful for this little guy:


Who entertained me through 3 back-to-back football games and a gluttonous day of eating.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Sia's Article

Sia Nyorkor
October 25, 2008
832 Words
Halloween Story


Babies 1st Halloween: Almost a Trick but Turns Out A Treat


West New York---

It was a celebration that almost didn't happen. On a blustery autumn afternoon, with gray skies and brisk winds, women from West New York Mommies, "a close-knit support group," wheeled babies in strollers dressed as a Tootsie Roll, bumble-bee, Snow White and a pumpkin, into the Riverbend/Hudson clubhouse for what would be many of their childrens' first Halloween party. Except, there was a problem: Employees of Roseland Management Company, which rents the clubhouse to homeowners in the neighborhood, didn't approve. Representatives from the company said that company rules prohibited parties without permission from management and that they were unaware the group was having a party. After verbally going back and forth with irate mothers and fathers, management relented and the party started, one hour later than planned.
The room, with large windows overlooking the choppy Hudson River and a misty Manhattan skyline, had been transformed into a haunted playroom, complete with bubbling cauldrons, blinking ghosts and grinning jack-o-lanterns. A patchwork blanket lay in the middle of the room, strewn with rattles, balls and other baby toys.
A pumpkin, 1 year –old Madeline Lanphear, toddled around the room, curiously staring at her playmates, who were also in costumes. Madeline's mother Kellie, who was dressed as Cindy McCain with slicked blonde chignon, royal blue sheath dress, and scarlet pashmina, scooped her up.
"Say, I'm a pumpkin because that's what daddy calls me" she cooed, while caressing Madeline's face. Her father, Kyle, who was dressed as Republican presidential candidate John McCain, complete with a wrinkled mask and shock of white hair, smiled.
Behind them stood Azie and Travis Shelhorse, who were dressed as Egyptians, topped of with black and gold headpieces. Their son, 9-month-old Hunter, was dressed as a sheriff. Azie is the founder of West New York Mommies. She came up with the idea for the support group after moving to West New York from Orlando, Florida and becoming pregnant. "Most of us don't have family here so we're each other's families" she said.
Rebecca Plaut can relate, even though she has family in the area. She met Azie at Starbucks when she was six months pregnant and Azie was in her final month. She said they hit it off and she began joining Azie and a few other mothers for activities. Rebecca said that during her maternity leave from work, the group saved her life. "Things happened to you that you couldn't imagine and thankfully, you had other women. It's amazing," she said, as she played with her 6-month old daughter Bella, who was dressed as a Tootsie Roll.
The group has about 30 mothers, with their membership rising. Most of the mothers joined after an invite from other mothers while strolling the Promenade with their babies. The mothers try to meet up twice a month, scheduling spa days, Nintendo Wii dances and picnics in the summer. They even schedule football parties some Sundays, where the fathers watch the children and the mothers go get their nails done.
Elias Dau, husband to Tracy and father to 3 ½ month-old Olivia, is supportive of the group and said that they look forward to the meet-ups. "It's definitely a help for me and my wife," he said.
Ari and Leslie Kendall said that this is their second event with group. "This is a support group?" Ari said jokingly, as his wife Leslie laughed. "It's been a help to us and has given us good stuff to do," he said cuddling 5 ½ month old Aylah, who was dressed as a black cat. Her big blue eyes blinked sleepily as she awoke from her catnap.
Azie keeps in contact with most of the mothers, via group blog. The blog is chock-full of pictures, recipes, invitations and recommendations for things such pediatricians, nannies and bakeries. There's also a Meet the Moms section, where group members welcome new and expectant mothers from the neighborhood.
Christine Clark is appreciative. She said that as a newcomer to the town, it's good to be with people who know things about the area. "I have a bunch of friends but there's no group like this that I've met," she said. She and daughter, 6-½ month old Emily were dressed as bugs, a bumblebee and ladybug, respectively.
Kellie Lanphear, who was one of the first members of the group said that she enjoys the camaraderie. She said that other groups in the area are not as friendly. She describes her own group as "warm and inviting."
As the party winded down and dusk fell, conversations about formula and babysitters amongst the goodbyes and see-you-soons were shared. Plans for the next event were also discussed.
"We're having a baby-free bowling night in two weeks at Lucky Strike" said Azie, excitedly. "We do make a point to get together without the babies sometimes."

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Where is she?

Just wanted you all to know I am in FL with "tha fam" for the holidays. Will be in Orlando through December 2nd and then Fort Myers from December 20-something through January something. :) Pregnesia, much?
Anyhoo, I'll be slacking with blog updates because I am finding it hard to pry myself away from friends and family long enough to do ANYTHING while I am here.
Enjoy your Turkey (or Tofurkey) Day and I'll see you in December!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

My Letter to Roseland

Friday, November 14, 2008



Mr. Dan Mogolesko
Senior Director of Operations
24 Avenue at Port Imperial
West New York, NJ 07093

SUBJECT: In Response to Clubhouse Usage Update (10/30/08)

Dear Mr. Mogolesko,

We are residents of Riverbend Building 25. We have lived here for over two years paying timely rent, agreeing to annual increases, and renewing our leases without hesitation. We consider ourselves to be a part of the community. Since we moved here from Orlando we have made friends, been married, and had a baby. The Riverbend, Hudson Club, and Port Imperial neighborhood is our home. It serves our purposes because it is close to the city and offers a great social network for young professionals and new parents. Because of these reasons, we have ignored the fact that some of our issues have not been addressed to resolution. Because of these reasons, we overlook some of the poor managing mishaps that have occurred along the way.

For example, we didn’t pursue it any further (such as deducting money from our rent which our attorney advised us is legally justifiable for the following issues) when we went without hot water for days repeatedly because the water heater “over heated” as was explained to us when we contacted your offices numerous times. We didn’t call the Health Department when dead chickens were found in the dumpster downstairs (complete with heads and feathers) and nothing was done about it. We didn’t raise “heck” when we showered, bathed our baby, washed the dishes, cooked, and did the laundry with contaminated sewage water because you failed to notify the residents until a day later that a pipe had broken and our water was directly effected by it. We didn’t complain to you when your offices did nothing about the constant complaints by residents about the noise from the Thursday night River Road racing...rather we just called the police numerous times per night until something was done about it. However we have friends that were allowed to move because of the noise so we know you were well aware of the problem. We didn’t contact the news channels when our building lost power and you were ill-prepared so there was no back-up generator and our newborn baby had to spend the night in the car with us so he wouldn’t overheat this summer. Last (but not least because unfortunately I could go on...) we haven’t demanded you install a key-fob entrance for the Crayon Corner in Building 25 even though random strangers (non-residents) come in and out at will with children who do not live here causing those of us who pay for this amenity and actually reside here to feel unsafe to have our own children play there.

Maybe we should’ve been more vocal. Maybe calling and writing and putting in Building Link requests aren’t enough to get you to notice your residents. It seems as though you are too busy wooing prospectives that you have forgotten your valued residents are paying your salary.

Since we are so understanding about all of the mishaps and issues and failures of your past, it really concerns us when something that we have a right to is denied.

On Saturday, October 26, 2008, we met with a group of approximately twenty other families from the neighborhood in the Clubhouse. About one half of the attendees at this gathering were condo-owners and the remainder were rent-paying residents. The group was gathering because we had arranged for all of our friends that we’ve met along the Promenade, at A&P and Starbucks, and on our daily ferry and bus commute to get together so we could meet each other’s families and have an early Halloween celebration for the kids. This event came about because this is the first year since we’ve lived here that your offices did not throw a Halloween party for the children in the community. Since we have a young son we wanted him to have a fun first Halloween. That being said, the purpose was not a “children’s party” and there were about 40 adults and 10 children (under age one) there.

We dressed our baby in his costume, made a treat and non-alcoholic beverage to bring, and arrived with high hopes of a Family Friendly day together in an area specially designed for these types of gatherings. As a matter of fact, most of us in attendance later discussed how we distinctly remember the Clubhouse being touted as a fun gathering spot when we went on our initial walk-through with the Leasing Office.

Unfortunately, within minutes of our arrival, an ill-informed representative from your office came upstairs and asked us to leave. We advised her we were all residents and according to the policy in place we could all be there during clubhouse hours. She asked why we were there. We answered that we were a group of Moms and Babies attempting to get together on a Saturday afternoon. She said we weren’t allowed to be there because of problems in the past with parties and property destruction. We told her that we were responsible adults and would clean up better than the cleaning service you pay under the table for. We also offered to pay $50 per family to give a $1000 deposit in case there was any other concerns. She said it wasn’t about the money and that she was going to make a call to her Supervisor. When she returned, she explained that since we were an “organized group” (because we used the term Moms, I assume) that we were not allowed to have a “party” unless it was pre-approved. We explained that there is nothing in the lease that suggests we aren’t permitted to all gather at the Clubhouse -- especially since we were all residents and owners and that since the policy rejects reserving the clubhouse we can not have anything “approved” anyways. Her response was that it’s not in the lease but it’s in the “Calendar”.

First-of-all, the Calendar is not a legal document. There is no proof of acknowledgement, no signature required, and most of us don’t read it because it’s redundant every month. Secondly, when we reviewed the Calendar (after the fact) this is what it says:

We cannot reserve any of the common areas. Each resident is allowed two guests; please share the space since the amenities are for each and every resident’s use.

Please remember that the Club Room & Theater Room are designated areas for adult socializing and are for the sole purpose of its intended use.

Therefore, her argument about the Calendar is nonsense. She then said the Clubhouse was supposed to be open for everyone in the community. We pointed out that the two gentlemen in the back had come in on their own accord and we didn’t turn them away. She said “Yeah well it’s supposed to be a relaxing environment.” We answered that she was the only person preventing it from being relaxing. In response or retaliation, she said that if we did not leave the Clubhouse immediately she would call the Police. Really? I wonder what the Police would say to residents and condo owners who are not trespassing since they pay for the amenity and partially own the property who are gathering for a family day at 2pm on a Saturday? What do you think?

We told her we weren’t going anywhere so she took down all of our names and apartment numbers and made another call. When she returned, she acted as if she was doing us a favor by allowing us to stay there with the condition that the “party” had to be over by 5pm. At 4:50pm, she came with your receptionist to ensure we cleaned up properly and then bolted and chained the doors -- which we found interesting since you advertise the Clubhouse hours as being from 5am - 12am.

Here are our issues: We were treated like we were worthless non-residents with no rights. We were treated unfairly, like second-class citizens. There was no logical explanation provided as to why we weren’t allowed to all gather in the same place at the same time. We were threatened with arrest. Let me reiterate that last point: we were threatened with arrest.

To add insult to injury, days later we received a letter from you with a new set of rules. You mention again the term “unauthorized party” in your letter which is inconsistent with your other policy of not being able to reserve the common areas for parties. You also have defined what a “party” is, however if multiple families coincidentally wanted to watch a game at the Clubhouse and gathered there with food and drinks of their own would you still “reserve the right to deny use of the amenities”? Where do you draw the line? Your disclaimer of “our goal is to offer amenity use for all residents without restrictions” is laughable and transparent. Clearly, Mr. Mogolesko, that is not your goal. It seems as though your goal is to keep the Clubhouse empty and immaculate so you can march prospective residents through the “state-of-the-art” socialization area as a last-ditch effort to rope them into a too-expensive-for-the-economic-climate lease and then begin ignoring them as paying residents.

The final straw was your refusal to allow a resident to have a party that she actually was able to approve in advance (inconsistent, much?) prior to our gathering on October 26th. You had the audacity to call the afternoon before her scheduled event, not even 24 hours notice, to revoke permission. Why is that? How do you expect someone to be able to find a space for rent in this area at 3:30pm on a Friday afternoon the day before? May I ask you if you have a family? If your wife was planning something for your child and some inconsiderate, power-tripping “Director of Op” denied her request last-minute how would that make you feel?

From what we understand (and I may be misquoting here) Hudson Club pays $130K per year to maintain the Clubhouse amenity. The condo-owners also have the right to gather there since they are part-owners of that area and in order to change that they would need to vote and have the majority agree otherwise. So if your issue is with your residents (which would be a poor decision on your part) then we can be guests of our friends, the condo-owners and still gather in the common areas whenever we’d like, correct?

Perhaps we are going on the assumption that the rules here are reasonable and logical. We would like a written explanation of response in addition to an apology for how we were treated the day of our gathering. We have yet to pursue anything legally but have alerted our attorneys to this situation in case any other issues arise as a result of our speaking up since we’ve heard you are non-receptive to resident criticisms and concerns.

You have offended many of your residents here -- even those who didn’t attend the gathering but have heard of your methods of dealing with residents you deem unworthy of exercising their rights. Several residents have approached us, asking if we were writing a letter in response to the issue and requesting they sign it as a sign of partnership. For them, I am adding this below and will allow my neighbors to sign this freely:

We believe, as rent-paying residents, we have the right to gather in the Clubhouse for planned and unplanned events. We will continue to be respectful of other residents, maintain an open-door policy, and clean up behind us.

Thank you in advance for your response.

Signed,




The Residents of Building 25, #926
Travis R. & Azadeh L. Shelhorse


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cc: file
personal website
Keith Carsten, P.A.
Trish A. Lisnow, P.A., Attorney’s Title

Goodnight Mom (with apologies to Margaret Wise Brown)

This is from Parenting (November 2008) Magazine's Last Word Section. It's modeled after the Classic "Goodnight Moon". I thought it was cute. Written by Sarah Jio:

In the messy green
family room
There was a telemarketer ringing the telephone
And a crying toddler
because his brother
just popped his red balloon
And a picture of-

The cow jumping over the moon
(which someone colored on
with permanent marker)
And there was a missing
teddy bear, and a girl with
gum in her hair

And one to be scolded
And laundry to be folded
And a very hungry spouse
And something stinky in the house
(that no one else seemed to smell)

And a comb and a brush and a colicky
baby who just won't shush
And a frazzled mommy screaming #*%#@

Goodnight messy room
Goodnight scribbled-on moon
Goodnight cow getting out while she can
Goodnight telemarketers and the 
popped balloon
Goodnight long gone teddy bear
Goodnight cereal bar smeared all
over the dining room chair

Goodnight spitup
And goodnight leaky sippy cup
Goodnight much-too-little house and 
goodnight grumpy spouse
Goodnight comb and goodnight brush
And goodnight to a certain 4-year-old
who just needs to hush right now I mean it

Goodnight Elmo
Goodnight toys we'll pick up tomorrow,
or the next day
Hello chardonnay and TiVo-
"me" time finally

Monday, November 17, 2008

LOVE this site!

For fun in front of the computer for your little one...
Enjoy!

Friday, November 14, 2008

Baby Plays

I can't remember if I ever posted about this and I'm too lazy today to check...I know I sent it out via email many months ago...
This is the Netflix of Toy Rental companies:
Similar to Netflix, here's how it works:

1) Choose a membership plan that is right for you
2) Select as many toys to add to your wishlist as you like
You will receive toys from your wishlist within a few days
3) Keep the toys for 30 or 60 days, depending upon the plan, or longer if you wish. You will still only be charged your low monthly membership fee, with no late fees ever! *Customers receive only One Shipment Per Month or One Shipment Every 2 Months, depending upon the plan*
4) When you are ready to get some fresh toys, place the toys that you wish to return back in the original shipping box, tape up the box with the provided tape & adhere the provided postage paid Fed Ex shipping label, then drop off at any Fed Ex shipping location. (Visit www.fedex.com to find the closest location to you)
5) When we receive your returned toys, we will send out your next shipment

I'm not sure if we're going to look into it but I thought it was a great, eco-friendly way to recycle toys and keep the house uncluttered. Wish I had known about it 9 months ago...

Oh.My.Cuteness.

Trav shared this with me today... 
It's JUST what I needed!!
After you read the article, check the link below:

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Catalog Barrage

If you're like me, you receive about 9 catalogs each day the mail comes. 
By the end of the week, catalogs have piled higher than Trav's WSJ stack on our coffee table.
Most of the catalogs are baby/toy related...some have adorable clothing, expensive custom made gift ideas, and eco-friendly toys.
Others are a complete waste of the 5 minutes it takes to flip through them before they are recycled.
I don't know how I got on all these mailing lists but I assume it has something to do with my Hunter-shopping habits.
Who knows? ;)
I saw this toy in a catalog this week and thought it was TOO cute and Hunter is going to get it for the holidays:
It's a ball pit inside of a plush dinosaur. When he is done, you zip it up and it doubles as a bean bag chair. LOVE it!
Then I saw this:
It's called Kitty Cat Camp. Nuff said. It's scary and the cats have removable vinyl clothes. This is the worst toy EVER. Worse than the toys SNL used to make fun of (like Bag O' Broken Glass). 
Anyways this holiday season is getting more and more exciting since Trav and I have an excuse to shop for cool toys again. We're getting Hunter his first Rocking Animal (I am not saying "horse" b/c we haven't chosen one yet and they have all sorts of Rockers these days). Next year will be even more spirited with 2 kids looking forward to a visit from Santa. More cookies and milk for me! :)

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Educational Sites

There are MANY out there...this is just one. I'll post more in the future:

Playroom Politics

Seriously, what is with parents who just don't care how their children treat others? 
Tonight a few of us met in the Playroom downstairs.
We had 4 babies there, all about 1 years old.
Then 3 adults came in -- perhaps the parents and a grandparent -- along with 2 older kids, maybe 3 and 4 years old. 
The little 3 year old (I'm guessing her age) repeatedly bullied our babies. She hit Hunter on the head, she told Madeleine that no babies were allowed on the playground set, she demanded Kellie give her some toys she wanted even though Madeleine was playing with them, she kept saying "no" to the babies regardless of what they wanted to do and it was just plain shameful. 
I made several comments about her behavior not being nice or that babies are allowed anywhere because this is a sharing environment but she wasn't listening to me (fine, I'm not her parent) and her Father (I'm guessing) was the only one of the 3 adults even watching her occasionally and didn't make a peep about her bullying. 
Needless to say, I'm annoyed. I get that it's not OK to scold other children but this little girl was a barbarian and no one else was telling her anything and I'll be damned if someone 3 times bigger and old enough to know better smacks my child. 
Whew! Ok, I'm good now.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

In Honor of Our Veterans

I remember you always Granny & Papaw -- especially on this day.
I wish Hunter could have met the man he was named after, Marion Maxwell Moses, and the woman who wouldn't have let him get away with any mischief, Miriam Crystalline Moses. 
~In Your Honor~

A Perk of Living Up North...

For about one week per year, I feel like I am living in a Renoir painting...all of the brilliant Fall colors blending into each other to create the watercolor landscape around me:
And then all is barren and desolate and the absence of color is a brutal reminder that Winter approaches.
I know, that's dramatic -- but it's how I feel about the change of seasons up here.

A Pointless Rant, If You Will...

So guess what...?
I'm pregnant.
Some of you already know this...others will be happy to realize I'm not just packing on the pounds from watching Oprah and eating chocolate ice cream all day.
Rather, I am watching Sesame Street and eating pancakes. So there.
I'm still in my first trimester, almost 11 weeks along, so it's too early for a celebration. Although if all goes well I will TOTALLY let you throw me a party in a couple of months. ;)
Trav and I are really excited. It's scary, sure, since our little ones will be less than a year and a half apart. However, I am thrilled with the idea of being done with childbirth by 30 and done with diapers by 33. Not that age is ever a factor for me...but it's nice to look at it that way regardless. I may actually get to enjoy some of my 30's with adult-fun. That's to be determined still, but that's my goal.
This time around things are different. I have a 9-month old who wants his Mommy 24-7 so I can't just sleep the day away when I feel exhausted (which is always). He gets plopped down in his playpen so I can go hug the toilet for an hour (gross, I know!) and I hope that his Elmo Guitar and Dino Ball are enough to keep him occupied. 
I know I should be all "Ooooh, pregnancy is beautiful!" but I'm not. Yes, I realize it's a miracle and I am growing a human being inside of me. While that moves me, it's not as Earth-Mothery the 2nd time around...although I am looking forward to feeling this little one move about inside of me, I also clearly remember wishing I could put Hunter back in my tummy when I went 2 weeks without a real shower after his birth.
Meanwhile I sit on the cold bathroom floor, face to the porcelain and wonder why I am so sick this time. Last time I was nauseous. A LOT. Like, all the time. But this time I've actually gotten sick and well, I won't go into details but it seems more severe. 
Some are speculating that it's a girl because I'm so sick. And because I'm feeling incredibly ugly these days. I remember feeling pretty during my last pregnancy...not so much this time. Even though I had no preference of the baby's gender, now I am hoping it IS a girl just so I'm not sick and ugly for no reason. 
And when I emerge from the bathroom, there is Hunter, trying to pry the outlet cover out of the wall with his teeth. Ahhhh, crawlers. They are so curious, aren't they? 
Funny how lax I've become with him since I'm pregnant. I just don't have the same stamina to follow him around the house, prying his teeth off of wires and making sure he isn't eating carpet fuzz. Luckily, since he's still about 24# and in the 97th% for weight, he's slow. And a lil' bit lazy. He doesn't pick his bum up off the floor when he crawls -- instead he drags his entire body around -- so it's a lot of work to get from one place to another. He's breathing heavily and wheezing by the time he's arrived at his final destination. My mommy friends in music class think this is hilarious. So do I.
The doctor thinks this is an indication he will start walking soon since crawling is too tedious. I disagree. Hunter doesn't seem to have anywhere to go. Unless a stray Cheerio rolled down the hall, he has no motivation to explore. Maybe this should be a cause of concern for me but since I am tired and pregnant I just consider myself lucky and get comfy on the couch. 
A part of me tries to encourage walking because come mid-January, our little munchkin will be terrorizing other babies in part-time Day Care. In order for him to be accepted into the class we want, he has to be close to walking at least. Every night, Travis gets out the wooden walky toy (from Plan Toys...the one with the woodpeckers on it) and puts Hunter's hands on it and gently pushes him along the hallway. It's too cute to see Hunter SO incredibly proud of himself. Until the woodpeckers frighten him and he falls back into his Papa's arms, whimpering. It's funny how he normally laughs in the face of truly scary things (like the cackling skeleton mirror with red light-up eyes at Halloween) and then allows himself to be afraid of a woodpecker, pecking away on a musical bar (much like a xylophone). 
Anyways what I guess I am trying to say is that being a Mom is fun. Being a pregnant Mom is rough. But I know in the long run it will all be worth it when I have to navigate small aisles with my double stroller with four hands reaching to pull at all the clothing tags, instead of just two, and with double the circles under my eyes but double the pride in seeing my babies developing into functioning, intelligent little beings. 

Monday, November 10, 2008

SPA DAY SUNDAY


Remember for those of you attending, this Sunday from 10am - 12:30pm is our Mini-Spa day at Muse Spa.
Please bring a treat or beverage for the group to enjoy in between services.
See you there!

Baby Pictures 11/13

Awesome!!!


Edgewater Multiplex Cinemas
Film: MADAGASCAR: Escape 2 Africa
Rating: PG
Price: $6.50
Date: 11/13/2008
Time: 10:00 am


Gotham Comedy Club Night

I'm thrilled to announce that Eric Plaut (a Daddy from our group) will be performing on stage at Gotham on Friday, December 19th, at 6:30pm. 
Eric's a funny guy and Gotham is a great venue. 
We go to Gotham for Trav's Birthday every year and we're always impressed.
Schedule a sitter and join us for an evening in the city!
*Make sure when you call Gotham you tell them you're going to see Eric so he gets credit for his attendees!*
Here's their site: Gotham

Friday, November 7, 2008

Gallery Updated

I *finally* updated our galleries: 



Enjoy! 

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Lucky Strike Update

Due to my emergency out-of-town trip, I was unable to organize Lucky Strike night for this week...however since many of you were up for it, I'll be sure to reschedule as soon as Thanksgiving is over. 

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Monday, November 3, 2008

Eek! A Climber!


Tonight my little monkey was sitting up in his crib while I put away some clean clothes in his drawers. I watched as he pulled himself up onto his knees by holding on to his crib rail. He bounced up and down on his knees and sang and laughed for about a minute or two.
Then he shakily pulled himself up to standing position, still holding on to his crib rail. This scared me because the rail came up to his waist and he could easily topple over. So I made a mental note to lower his crib this weekend and continued to watch him.
He then swung his left leg and then the right leg over the rail and jumped for it! He landed in my arms, of course, since I was watching it all progress. But still...he climbed and jumped!! And he's not even walking unassisted...needless to say I changed the mattress level TONIGHT. 
I know he's growing up and these are things they can do at his age but until you see it for the first time you really don't think they are capable.
Where has my little inanimate baby gone? 

My Email to the Moms

From this morning:


Hi Moms!

Last week most of you didn't hear from me because I had to make an emergency trip home to Florida to be with family. All is well now and I am home in WNY. :)

As a result, the blog wasn't updated and emails didn't go out so I have a lot to catch up on this week.

FYI:

SPA DAY is still set for Sunday, Nov. 16th. 10am - 12:30pm at Muse Spa on 20 Dempsey Ave. (across from Whole Foods) -- If you are interested in coming, please RSVP directly to me via email. Also tell me what services you may be interested in so I can tell Judy what to expect. She gives us a discount on services and sets up an area for us to have coffee, tea, champagne, and treats. Please remember to bring something yummy to eat or drink.

LUCKY STRIKE BOWLING for the ADULTS ONLY night hasn't been confirmed yet since I was out of town. If there is still interest, I can try to set it up this week. Let me know. If not this week we can always reschedule it. Sorry!

BLOG: http://westnymommies.blogspot.com/ <----- Here's the address. Please save it to your favorites if you want to remain updated on our events. I will solely be using the blog after this email goes out. Our group is growing every day -- which is a GOOD thing!! -- but because of the number of Mommies and the amount of emails I receive, I need to come up with a solution that takes less time away from Hunter. I am going to post this email to the blog today and from here on out I will be posting all future correspondence to the blog. Feel free to still email me directly whenever you want or need to! :)

CLUBHOUSE FIASCO: For those of you who were there for the Halloween Party -- since I was gone for a week I didn't write my letter to the Office yet however I will this week and I'll pass it around for signatures as well. I won't get into details here b/c it will ALL be in the letter. I'll also post it on the blog.

Hope everyone has a wonderful, chilly week! See you soon!

--
X,
Azie

Friday, October 24, 2008

Need a Dentist? Use our Mommy Friend! :)

Nomi and her husband opened their practice in Hoboken and they specialize in Children! :)
Check them out:
DENTIQUE
80 River Street
Penthouse Suite
Hoboken, NJ
201.79.TOOTH
Clearly, Hunter will be needing them. ; ) 

Thursday, October 23, 2008

MINI SPA DAY #2!!

Join us on Sunday, November 16th from 10am - 12:30pm at Muse Spa.
Email me your RSVP so I can let Judy know the # of attendees and what services we want.
Last Spa Day was a success! Hope to see you there.

Second Saturdays Short-Lived

Not all good ideas end up working out.
Ideally, Second Saturdays were a time for new parents to get together and socialize while their kiddles had a playdate.
However, like so much in our busy lives, it became more of an obligation to attend and we went from 3 families our first time to 1 family showing up our second time attempting it.
So Second Saturdays are no longer...
And since we do plan so many activities as a group anyways, I don't think it will be missed. 
Sayonara Second Saturdays! 

Meet the Moms -- Rebecca



Forgive me for forgetting this, Bex! ;)
Meet Rebecca & Bella.
Bella is 6 months old and the youngest fashionista I've ever met. 
If you see them shopping, stop to chat!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

-- Halloween Party --

Wow!!
I've gotten SO much feedback about the Halloween Party and I just can't hide it -- I am PSYCHED! :)
Halloween is my fave holiday of the year and last year I refused to celebrate it (since I was large and in charge as a preggy woman) so this year it means so much to me for all of us to get together, spend time with old friends, meet new ones, and eat candy. ;)
Here's just a little reminder (same as the emails I've been sending out):
WHERE: CLUBHOUSE (2nd floor of the Riverbend/Hudson Club Leasing Office) -- if you are our neighbor and don't know how to get in, please email me now or call me the day of. Don't bother the Leasing Staff for directions...they may turn you away if you are without a key fob. 
WHEN: 2 - 5pm. Trav thinks that's lame since Halloween parties should be at night -- I agree but we have kiddies to think about so 2 - 5pm was the latest I could stretch it without running into some of the early bed-time babies' schedules.
WHO: There are over 40 parents and 20 babies coming, give or take a tot or two for the preggies. Um, yeah. That's a pretty decent-sized gathering. In addition, Sia will be in attendance. She is the Grad Student journalist from Columbia who is doing a story on our party. 
WHAT: Potluck (bring a dish AND server -- I am not bailing anyone out this time b/c I have too much to bring as it is), Pumpkin Carving (there is a fun gift for first place -- bring your own pumpkin, carving kit, and newspaper for the "guts" -- carving will commence as soon as you arrive and will be judged at 4:30pm so us parents with mobile kiddies have time to chase after our children with knife in hand if need be - only joking!!), Pics and Costumes (babies should be dressed if you're into that type of thing -- Hunter is going to be a cowboy -- and parents feel free to dress up and let loose too -- Trav and I are going to be a Pharoah and Queen of Egypt), Movie Screening (Halloween-themed of course) and Scary Music, LOTS of GHASTLY DECOR (please bring one item of decor with you - it can be super simple or elaborate - no need to spend a ton of time or money but the more tricks and treats the better the bash.)
See you all there!!

Baby's Got Brand New Shoes...


I'm sitting here in my "office" (ha! anyone who has been here knows it's my living room with a makeshift desk area), eating SmartFood Popcorn (b/c nothing satisfies me before bed like a little white cheddar powder), and blogging about my baby boy growing up. Overall, it's a sad situation...

So Hunter has been showing interest in standing and walking. And when I say "showing interest" I mean he flaps his arms like little pterodactyl wings and screeches while attempting to pull himself up and stand for 2 seconds. It's humorous and adorable and --dare I say-- pathetic at times but it's also yet another sign that my baby is turning toddler on me and I best prepare myself. 

Since I can't emotionally prepare myself (AKA don't want to) I have taken to buying him big boy shoes. I'll admit. I was once the shoe snob single woman who said she'd never buy her child a pair of character shoes. That was before I saw a little girl screaming bloody murder at Target b/c they were out of Hello Kitty sandals in her size. Upon closer look, I too wanted the pink sparkly sandals and attempted to fit my too-big-for-my-height-Fred-Flinstone-foot into a Girl's size 13 sandal in front of this girl and her mother. It wasn't my proudest moment but I felt the little girl's pain. Anyhoo -- tangent -- I found the CUTEST pair of character shoes ever. 
The picture doesn't do them justice. They're 
black suede New Balance sneakers and the tongue is fuzzy cookie-monster material (you know what i mean if you watch Sesame Street). I heart them! And I am determined to stuff Hunter's chubby little baby foot into a pair by the time he's walking. 

I also made a few other purchases...a pair of Navy & Green leather Pumas (like this but different in every way)
baby blue shearling booties,
 Ugg's Baby Boy Boot 
(which is appropriately called "Boo" - my nickname for Hunter), and some Merrel Snow Boots
 (not that he'll be walking in the snow anytime soon but I wanted to be ready in case he went straight from arm-flapping to snow-angels.) I also thought I should invest in some Pedipeds in case Hunter decides (like he did with hand-clapping and waving) that walking and crawling are not for him. In that case, I am prepared to hire someone to just pick him up at his beck and call because his 24lb booty is getting too heavy for me to keep hauling around!

Pic in the Punkin Patch

:)  Here's our Punkin:

Wooden Toys


Some of you know I am a die-hard fan of wooden toys...they are nostalgic and non-toxic and the simple designs speak to me more than the gaudy plastic toys (which Hunter prefers, btw). 
For those of us who buy toys hoping that our children will one day love them as much as we do, I give you Plan Toys: site. And did I mention they are green? You're welcome.

Halloween Pics for the Tots -- The Cutest Bay-Bee


Awww, Yarden is TOO adorable in her vintage bee suit!

Recipe of the Week

Here it is, the last Halloween-themed Recipe of the Week in case some of you still need ideas for the party this Saturday:

Crescent Mummy Dogs (courtesy the Pillsbury website)

INGREDIENTS
1 can (8 oz) Pillsbury® refrigerated crescent dinner rolls or 1 can (8 oz) Pillsbury® Crescent Recipe Creations™ refrigerated flaky dough sheet
2 1/2 slices American cheese, quartered (2.5 oz)
10 large hot dogs
Cooking spray
Mustard or ketchup, if desired


DIRECTIONS
1. Heat oven to 375°F.
2. If using crescent rolls: Unroll dough; separate at perforations, creating 4 rectangles. Press perforations to seal. If using dough sheet: Unroll dough; cut into 4 rectangles.
3. With knife or kitchen scissors, cut each rectangle lengthwise into 10 pieces, making a total of 40 pieces of dough. Slice cheese slices into quarters (1/2 slice cheese, cut in half).
4. Wrap 4 pieces of dough around each hot dog and 1/4 slice of cheese to look like "bandages," stretching dough slightly to completely cover hot dog. About 1/2 inch from one end of each hot dog, separate "bandages" so hot dog shows through for "face." On ungreased large cookie sheet, place wrapped hot dogs (cheese side down); spray dough lightly with cooking spray.
5. Bake 13 to 17 minutes or until dough is light golden brown and hot dogs are hot. With mustard, draw features on "face."

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Trav's Birthday


Today is my hubby's Birthday so I planned a super special weekend for us. 
Saturday we went to Warwick (thanks for the rec, Roni!) to go apple-picking and to the pumpkin patch...it was c-c-c-cold but the warm cider and apple donuts warmed us up! 
Hunter was bundled in his Bugaboo and seemed to get a kick out of the pumpkins. He was beating on them like drums...is he learning from class?? Hmmmm...
When we got home we all took a nap together and then got ready for our adult night out.
My fave sitter, Allie, came to watch Hunter and Trav and I headed into the city for dinner at
 Revel and a comedy show at Gotham. 
We saw John Heffron. HILARIOUS. 
We got home at about 12:30am and I seriously can't remember the last time I was out that "late" in the city.
Sunday he played b-ball (his fave) while Hunter and I slept in. (Ahhh, to have a sleepy baby.) 
I made a big breakfast for us while he opened presents.
Then we went into the city again -- this time as a family -- to the Central Park Zoo (thanks for the tix, Sus!). Hunter was following all the animals with his eyes in absolute wonder. 
We used
 our new baby backpack and it worked really well for that setting. 
We stopped at a Pizzeria in the Upper West Side because I've been craving pizza for days.
This evening I made Trav a home-cooked dinner (which he doesn't get often since he works so late) and then we had ice cream cake to celebrate his Special Day. 
It was truly a weekend full of love and family and it felt great. I don't often feel that way since our extended family is so far away and today it felt like we were all here together, where we needed to be.